Is it a good thing that i didn't have with him?

Well, I am and lean towards females emotionally 90/10, but physically, only 55/45. I can tell you one thing - you did not miss a thing bi not sleeping with him, except heartache. He gives biuals a bad name. Yes, I am honestly bi, but I am also a gentleman and believe in courtesy and commitment, let alone respect - all of which he seems to be seriously lacking. Move on, but do not allow this one selfish jerk ruin your idea of all bi guys - some of us are really cool both in and out of bed :)